Okay so hear me out. Losing someone sucks. Like really, really sucks. There’s no clean way to say it. One minute they’re part of your life, and the next minute they’re just… gone. But also not gone? Because sometimes you feel them. And not in some movie-scene way. Not angels-with-light kind of thing. Just… there. Quiet. Random. Weird. Little moments that don’t make sense and don’t ask for permission. These are the kinds of moments people call spiritual signs of deceased visiting—small, messy, unexplainable things that hit you in your chest.
It’s not always dreams. It’s not always signs you can point at and say “this is definitely spiritual.” It’s just stuff. Stuff you can’t explain but also can’t ignore. And it messes with your head a little.
1. Crazy Dreams
Sometimes you dream about them and it’s not like a normal dream where everything’s fuzzy and random. It feels real. Too real. You’re talking to them like nothing ever happened. Hugging them. Sitting next to them. Sometimes they don’t even say much. They just look at you. Calm. Fine. Like they’re okay and you’re the one who’s confused.

And then you wake up and it hurts. But also it doesn’t? Your chest feels heavy and warm at the same time. Like you were actually with them for a second and now you’re back here. You spend the rest of the day thinking about it, replaying it, wondering if it meant something or if your brain was just being cruel.
2. Feeling Them Around
This one’s hard to explain without sounding insane. You’re alone. Nothing special happening. And suddenly you feel like someone’s there. Not see. Not hear. Just know. Maybe it’s a chill. Maybe warmth. Maybe the feeling that if you turned around, they’d be standing there.
Sometimes it’s comforting. Sometimes it freaks you out. Sometimes you talk out loud just in case. Sometimes you pretend it didn’t happen because thinking about it too much feels like too much.
3. Random Signs
This is where it starts getting annoying because you don’t want to read into everything… but you do anyway.
Butterflies showing up when they never did before. A bird sitting way too close. Numbers repeating everywhere. A song on the radio that you haven’t heard in years, playing at the exact wrong-or-right moment. You roll your eyes at yourself and still feel something in your chest like “okay but… really?”
Coincidence? Sure. But also why does it feel personal?

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4. Weird Stuff Happening
Lights flicker. Electronics act stupid. The TV turns on by itself. Something falls when no one touched it. The room suddenly feels cold or heavy for no reason.

You tell yourself there’s an explanation. There probably is. But sometimes it happens when you’re thinking about them. Or crying. Or asking for a sign even though you said you wouldn’t.
And you just sit there like… okay. Noted.
5. Sudden Thoughts
You’ll be doing something completely normal. Brushing your teeth. Driving. Folding laundry. And boom — they’re in your head. Not gently. Not like a memory. Like a full feeling. Their face. Their voice. Something they would’ve said.
It doesn’t feel like you thought of them. It feels like they showed up. And it hits you out of nowhere and leaves you staring at nothing for a minute.
6. Smells
This one messes people up the most.
Perfume they always wore. Cigarette smoke even though no one smokes. Food they used to cook. Flowers they loved. It’s strong. Clear. And then it’s gone before you can even react.
You walk around trying to find the source even though you already know there isn’t one. It makes your stomach flip. It feels like a memory and a presence at the same time.
7. Music And Noises
Music hits differently after someone dies. A song can wreck you in seconds. Especially when it comes on randomly. Especially when you needed it and didn’t know you did.

Sometimes it’s not music. Sometimes it’s sounds. A laugh that sounds like theirs. Footsteps. A whisper. Your name almost being said. You tell yourself you imagined it. But your heart already reacted before your brain caught up.
8. Weird Emotional Waves
This might be the quietest sign, but also the strongest.
You’re crying. Breaking down. Missing them so badly it physically hurts. And then suddenly… calm. Not happiness. Just peace. Like someone turned the volume down on your pain for a minute.
It feels like being told “I’m okay” without words. And you don’t know why you feel better, you just do. And that almost makes you cry more.

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Conclusion
Look, I don’t know if any of this is “real” or if it’s just our brains trying to make sense of loss. Probably a little of both. But who cares, really? Because when you feel it, when you see the signs or smell that perfume or hear that song, it matters. It hits you in the chest and in your heart and it makes you remember that they were here, that they still are, somehow.
And yeah, it’s messy. Confusing. Sometimes it makes you cry, sometimes it makes you laugh, sometimes it makes you question everything. But maybe that’s the point. Maybe it’s just love refusing to disappear. And honestly? That’s enough. That’s really all we need.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Q. How do I know it’s really them and not just my imagination?
Ans: Honestly? You don’t. Sometimes it’s your brain. Sometimes it’s grief. Sometimes it’s them. The thing is… it feels different. Strong. Weird. Personal. That gut feeling is usually what counts.
Q. I keep seeing the same signs—numbers, butterflies, songs. Is that really a message?
Ans: Maybe. Or maybe your brain is noticing patterns because you’re thinking about them. Doesn’t matter. If it makes your heart feel something, take it. That’s the whole point.
Q. What if it scares me?
Ans: Totally normal. Sometimes it’s comforting. Sometimes it’s freaky as hell. Just breathe. You don’t have to understand it, just feel it.
Q. Why now? Why did this start happening suddenly?
Ans: Could be anniversaries, birthdays, or moments you really needed them. Grief has a weird way of popping up when you least expect it.
Q. Can anyone see these signs?
Ans: Some people notice them more than others. Some people never do. That doesn’t make you broken or them gone any less—it’s just… your connection is unique.



